One of those days!

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Enjoying a lazy Sunday today. It is not often I get a weekend off.  The weekend thing sucks but I keep reminding myself, it's only temporary (everything is) and when I'm a sought after screenwriter with my name on the lips of every A-list (and B-Z list, too!)  Actors and Directors; when I'm buying my dress (red) for the Oscars, I will have the choice. Now? Not so much. Besides as most of you know I actually like where I work. 

I am aware it is quite a blessing to enjoy where you work. Most of us spend more time at work than at home.  It's important to find a place that adds to your life as opposed to sucks it out of you!  Mine can do both, I admit. We've all had "those kind of days" You know the ones, It could be anything from a serious case of the dropsies, a crabby mood you just can't shake, running late and getting stuck at EVERY. FRIGGIN. red. FRIGGIN! light., diner ding-bat - where "it doesn't matter what you say, it aint gonna stick," - ("Maam, I asked for eggwhites." Doh!) to shutting your jacket in the car door or the horrifying "kerplop" of your cell phone in the toilet -  you name it and most of us have probably experienced it at least once, sometimes twice!  You know the days where it would seem anything that could go wrong, inevitably does.

I find when I'm having "one of those days" I'm extra focused on all those little nuances- I repeat to myself several times a day (and to anyone who will listen!) "UGH! I'm having one of those days!!" and they will nod with an empathetic, "Yup, I know what you mean. " So I was thinking.... why not declare "I'm having one of those days!" when I'm having a good day! Focus on all the good things happening around me. I sure have a lot more good days than bad so, my thought is if I focus on the good, I'll see more of it! It's worth a shot. I'll let you know how I make out. Let's try the experiment together. For one week - focus only on the good, if your day is heading in the opposite direction. Stop! Switch your thoughts and pay attention to what happens. I want a full report. So far today, "I'm having one of those days!" and I feel incredibly lucky!

First of Many

Okay.... here goes - I'll be the first to admit, I am the walking cliche - a writer stuck in a waitresses body. It's not hard to find one of those here in sunny California -  a hop, skip and a jump from infamous Hollywood!  I'm cool with that.  Waitressing is a perfect job for a writer - you have character sketches, nuances, behaviors, it is detailed research, folks!  I enjoy not being stuck behind a desk (funny coming from a writer, right!) at least not day in and day out.

You will find this blog will cover a gamut of interesting topics, people, places, parenting, relationships...I guess it's my blog... so I can write what I want, quite a luxury. I will do my best not to bore you to tears.  I intend to keep your interest piqued, your funny bone tickled and your wheels spinnin'.  Man, I got my work cut out for me, huh!

I work in a family-owned neighborhood restaurant.  "Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name"... and this is that place. That's one of the coolest things about it, there are days when I can walk through my station and know everyone in it. It's unique and sure makes the time spent there much more fun. I'm a happily married mother of a 12 y-o, 15 y-o and a 17 y-o.  I'm fortunate to find so much satisfaction in my quiet life!  My real passion yearns to break free - write! The only thing stopping me is me. Until now. This is how I intend to flex those writing muscles and hope to hear your thoughts, feedback, stories...etc, I want to open a conversation with you. In this crazy world, with 24 short little hours, it means a lot to me that you took some time to read this. Thank you.